Posts Tagged ‘Parents’
November 28th, 2009 Posted by: admin
If i’m the next president of the U.S, i would allow abortion if only it is ****. If the baby’s parents are drug-addict, they should have abortion. But if it is accident teen sex, they should not get abortion.
i tried but its too hard
By: whatever441
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November 3rd, 2009 Posted by: admin
im 18 and im a senior in high school. i dont have any friends because i have to be home right after school. my step-dad just got fired from his job and im working 2 jobs just to help pay rent. in the morning i have to get up at 5:00 and get myself ready for school. then at 6:30 i have to wake up all my younger sibblings and get them ready for school. most of the time i leave without eating breakfast. we just adopted our nephew who is 12 and i am so frustrated because he treats me like crap and lies about everything. and my parents don’t see it because they’re never home. i never get any homework done and i have all F’s. as soon as i get home i take care of the kids. i help them with their homework and then i make dinner. after dinner, no one helps me pick up and im left in the kitchen cleaning till about 9:30. because my parents aren’t around, the kids don’t listen to me half the time. i can’t see my dad. he lives in wyoming and i’ve always wanted to live with him but my mom never let me. my mom and i never speak to each other. sometimes ill want to tell her something really bad but i can’t cuz all she does is critisize me. i have no friends and i’ve been to 14 different schools in 7 years and i have a hard time making friends. i lost my best friend in a car accident a year ago and now i don’t want anymore friends.my mom told me to get over it the day after it happened. same about my dad. he died. and if she would’ve let me go live with him i would have been able to see him before he passeed.
i go to manitou springs high school in colorado and everybody here pretty much is a pot head. it’s hard to make friends because the majority of them would get me into trouble. i recently enlisted in the army but that was one of the reasons i lost friends. our whole school is pretty much a bunch of hippies. sometimes i want to cry but i don’t know how to. even if it’s really bad, i can’t bring myself to do it. sometimes i think o well ill just wait till i graduate and then ill be out of here, but the problem is is that i don’t think ill make it. i want to run away sometimes. one time i did and my mom didn’t do anything. she just assumed i was at a friends house. im tired of doing things for people and not being noticed for it. im so stressed and i have no idea what to do. i want someone at school not just to talk to me but to be friends with me and understand me and take me for who i am. im so confused. please,please help me. i want to die.
i know i would have friends if my home life was better. should i run away befor i graduate.
By: Eden
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November 1st, 2009 Posted by: admin
my daughter told me that she knows i smoke weed because she knows what it smells like. i was shocked but i told her the truth and told her that i should not be doing it and i will quit for her. my husband says that i am crazy for telling her the truth. he said what kind of parent tells their child they use drugs??what do you think?
she said a boy gets on her school bus every day and kids say he smells like weed all the time. and then she realized her parents smell like that too.
By: mrsleslie_lady
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October 25th, 2009 Posted by: admin
I’ve grown up, visited and lived in major cities all my life. I’ve lived in L.A. for about 17 year now (I’m in my 20’s), and I just saw a picture of a really small town in Kentucky. It occurred to me that I never even realized that there are such places in the US.. I mean, intellectually, of course I realized it. But I’ve never imagined living in a place like that. I love Los Angeles, it’s a real melting pot, but sometimes I feel like it’s just too.. much. Too much of everything. I know that grass is always greener on the other side of the fence.. but what’s it like living in a small town and growing up in one? Is there actually a world out there where you don’t have to lock your doors every moment of the day? Where you aren’t always afraid that your car will get keyed/stolen/broken into? Where it doesn’t matter whether or not you have the latest GPS system/jeans/hair/cars? Where neighbors actually know each other’s names? Where violent crime doesnt happen 100s of times a day?
Oh, how great (and lucky).. living in LA, sometimes I feel out of place. I’m studying to be a lawyer, so I don’t have to live in some ghetto neighborhood making 8 dollars an hour.. but sometimes (often) it’s just not what I want out of life. But my parents always had financial difficulties, and so I don’t want to be that way.. it just seems that people in LA live to work, and I kind of get ****** into that mentality some days. Anywho, enjoy your towns, I really think the grass IS greener there! :o)
By: Emo B
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October 22nd, 2009 Posted by: admin
I really dislike him. SO BAD.
he is a HEAVY alcoholic (when hes drunk he often gets very abusive, yells/screams at us and scares us, or annoys us), he is addicted to gambling, he smokes pot, and he is just plain biligerant.
Im only a 16 yr old girl.
He pays no bills and has abused my mom (physically and mentally) for 30 years. my mom is an angel to me and i will not stand for this any longer. he uses her and she works so hard to pay the bills and he sits around all day and does nothing.
he has this stupid prideful attitude, and says he wont get a normal job because he wont work for ‘the man’. stupid fool.
he doesnt support me in school and never comes to any of my functions.
tonight he was drunk, and he was absolutely yelling at my mom at the top of his lungs. i got so mad, and i told him that he was a fool for treating my mother the way he does. he spit in my face, then yelled and screamed at us the whole night, throwing stuff around.
my parents are going through divorce, all is going to be solved soon (i hope), but he is such scum i cant stand it any longer though. is this wrong for me to feel? i feel like i shouldnt stick up to him for my mom all the time but he was begging my mom for money and yelling at her. i cant let him beat me and my mom down anymore. we are so innocent and dont do ANYTHING to hurt him.
What can I do to get through this by the end of the year? we need to sell the house, then we will go separate ways. i dont know how long that will be..
my mom has tried to leave but my dad is absolutely crazy. he has threatened things. we are trying to get out of this as peacefully as possible. when the house sells, she will get half and he will get half.
we are dealing with a mentally unstable person, basically. if we were to kick him out, he would come back ,no doubt. he just wont leave.
my mom is the best mom in the world though. she tries so hard to make everything good for me and she does it well. i love her so much.
By: Mandy A
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October 10th, 2009 Posted by: admin
I myself started smoking pot when i was 15 and i used to do it everyday back then. I would get in all kinds of things but thankfully weed was the only drug i’ve ever tried. Back then, i used to smoke with my friends and their parents and anyone that smoked weed, i thought it like brought people together but now that im 22 i look at teenagers that smoke pot and it just kind of makes me realize how stupid i was but idk thats just my opinion. What do you guys think of it?
By: Ciera
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October 2nd, 2009 Posted by: admin
what do you do when your parents found out that you smoke marijuana? If u whant them to forgive you.
By: superchris
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September 25th, 2009 Posted by: admin
Okay, it seems that my 17 year old(will be 18 next month) has gotten back into a relationship with a boy that we forbid her to see. We found out after her grades droped to d’s and f’s. This kid has been kicked out of school for smoking pot twice, has disrespected my husband, and I on many occassions with his smart mouth. My daughter left home, and a teacher called us to let us know that she’s moved in with this boy, and his family. My husband gently packed up the rest of her stuff, and since my daughter won’t take our calls, a friend came got her things. We now have her mustang up for sell. This school teacher wants us to have a sit down with this boy, and his parents to try, and work through this. In my opinion we don’t owe these people anything. They have no respect, or regard for us a parents, or they wouldn’t aide my daughter in defying her parents. This boy will get off the dope, and then he’s back again. Now, we found out he quit school…
Are we doing the right thing by standing by are rules, and opinion toward this guy?
We have sent messages via the teacher to let her know that we love her, and can come home as long as she obeys our rules. If she does come home the mustang is still history.
By: Mojo Jojo
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September 25th, 2009 Posted by: admin
My family hates me! My kids (early teens) I had to stay with my parents and my sister for a month or so because my rental home was foreclosed on. During that time, my sister’s unemployed boyfriend (who lives there as well) would refer to me as “it”, throw tampons at me, say things to my 4 year old niece like “just because auntie is here, doesn’t mean you have to act like her” when she threw tantrums (an ongoing problem before I got there), tell the neighbors I was an unemployed mooch (yes, the pot calling the kettle black), and when I called him on it, he said to shut up because he wasn’t interested in talking to me about it. I told my parents, and they told me to “just take it, whats the big deal”. When I got upset, my mother threw me and my kids out. I had them stay at my ex-husbands, but then my sister and boyfriend would show up nightly to take them back to their house. I allowed it since the divorce was rough on them and didn’t want to make it worse by changing them out of schools before the end of the year. Now my younger child calls me and tells me they (sis and bf) call him useless and stupid because he doesn’t like doing all the chores ( yes ALL), so I made arrangements for him to stay at my ex-husbands permanently. They would be with me, but I have several roommates right now and am unemployed still. Both of them are leaving my parents home in the end. Currently my mother is text messaging me that my ex just wants the child support, that I am a horrible mother for taking them away from them. I say they are being abusive and are harming their well-being; they say I just want to hurt them (my parents). After all the crap I have heard from my parents, I am ready to cut them out of my life forever and head out-of state, change my name and number, the whole 9 yards. Am i being unreasonable? I feel as though they have chosen my sister and her boyfriend over me. Neither of them work, and while I was staying there my boyfriend was paying my bills for me, so at least it wasn’t a financial burden on them. My sis is 24, has never paid rent, ( I paid when I lived there starting at 16 years old) and has a daughter. I talked to my dad a few times after the falling out and it seems like he only talked to me to put more fuel on the fire. I don’t know if its me or them, but I feel worthless since my own parents would rather keep a guy around that isn’t even family than their own daughter. I tried this the adult way, through talking, but mostly they won’t speak to me, and when they do, its all just name-calling. My boyfriend ( who comes from a decent family) says they are nuts, but I think I need more validation. Can anyone tell me what to do? Should I cut the strings and go, or should I keep trying with them? My sister had always been the obvious favorite, and my heart has broken over this.
By: mummydearestslilgirl
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September 24th, 2009 Posted by: admin
What would you do if your friend is dating a dude who does pot a lot and he even shows up to their dates high sometimes? One time when we all went out to eat he showed up about 40 mins late and high. Her parents **** him and tell her to break up with him. They’re in their 2nd yr of college and have been dating since 1st. She said she loves him and truthfully they are cute together. He seems to care about her but not enough to stop drinking and smoking pot.
In his high school he was known as a major pothead. Hes talked about quittinf college. When she asked him what he would do if he did he said he doesnt know.
By: John S
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