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Honest answers only please?
Okay so all my life I have been very susceptible to saying yes to people. I went through a lot of drugs and God has saved me, but my friend just came over (an older friend that knows the family…) and expected me to smoke pot with her. So I did (along with presc. pills…) for two days and she just left and I want to tell her I don’t want to do that anymore. I just feel convicted and religious reasons aside, I just felt dumb.
But how do I do this? I was thinking about just sending her a myspace message and explaining that I don’t want to (but am still her friend…) but I feel like maybe I should wait until she offers to tell her no? Would that be braver and would I learn how to say no better? Or is that dumb to wait?
And regardless, how can I learn to stand up for myself! I’m serious I’ve gotten a dumb tattoo, done a lot of drugs and had *** because I can’t stand up for myself. i had a sort of rough childhood. Any sites/books/tips?
Thnx
By: Davis T
Tags: Peer Pressure, Religious Reasons, Sites Books
December 13th, 2009 at 19:35
Yeah I wasnt that bad but I had the same problem. So one day I just musterd up all my corage and told them to F-off, eveyone was so shocked they left me alone . Need more advice just message me
December 15th, 2009 at 18:27
is good, and really explains how to cope with the peer pressure of it all. My personal advice is just stop. You’ve done so well to give it all up- don’t degrade yourself to abandoning your post just because an old friend comes. Tell her sincerely that you don’t want to anymore. It would be better to do it in person- but you can use myspace as an emergency procedure. If she’s a true friend she will love you whether you’re high or NOT. If she can’t accept that you’re clean, then you’ll have to move on. It’s unfortunate, but someone that would hold you back from your better health isn’t a friend- not a proper one anyway. Good luck!!
December 17th, 2009 at 16:05
Just turn to the Lord. Thats the only person who can REALLY help you.
December 17th, 2009 at 18:12
wow, that is seriously bad.
i did what?
if i was u if she really was ur friend and if she really was older she would have known they were bad news and not taken them in the first place. if she did that u would have been safe.
do u know wat drugs do to your blood?
get real!
i might sound like a parent but i am a teen.
u should stop talking to her
that is the real honest answer
December 19th, 2009 at 23:31
i’m really sorry about all that’s happended. but just wait until she asks u again then say it. it’s okay to start saying no now.